Meaningless reprisals of a broken heart

When a guy experiences a problem with relationships, does it always mean meaningless drinking so tt he can drown his broken heart and forget abt the endless pain or does it mean crying in a corner where nobody else can see him at his lowest. Do we guys have to do this so tt we can ultmately pull together and realise tt it is all not worthwhile after a major hangover with puke all over the place n a migraine tt can kill ye. Of cos me aint saying all women r not worth the effort n pain, some r worth every bit of time ye spent doing the stupiest things for her but me just saying tt some dont.

From a fren's point of view, it is n always will be ye duty to stand by the one hurt irregardless of how frustrated ye can be. Frustrated not at ye fren but at the fact tt y it always happens to others ye care ard ye but not yeself, y ye cant take half the burden from them, y ye have to watch them suffer while ye noe watever ye say to comfort them would not in anyway reduce their pain. It hurts me to see me frens suffer especially at the cruel reality of relationships. On the other hand it always soothes me heart to see some who have braved the waves of failure and reached the shores of success eventually finding the one. Looking at these couples, we all see hope in relationships, it can be a painful one if ye find the wrong partner but lik me say it will always be worthwhile if ye find the one tt can tolerate all ye shit n stil love ye as ye r.

Was asking meself this question, do ladies to the same thing when faced with the same problem? Its hard to picture a woman drinking over a failed relationship, crying yes, they r nv discrete when it comes to crying. But who do they look for when they go down, me heard and seen guys with many brotherhoods but ladies...nv seen many sisterhoods ard. So who do these ladies turn to for comfort? Well, me can recommend ye a few good men ladies, dont worry it aint me, completely refundable of cos, too bad no money back guarantee.